Have you ever just been?

It seems people are so wrapped up in their minds that they never get to USE them, and even worse feel that if they have certain thoughts, that makes them bad or something.

When people have invested themselves in the idea of gender, anyone who acts outside that expectation shows them that there are more possibilities than they had previously supposed; they'll either adapt and allow others to be, or try to put it out of mind, by whatever means necessary.

-E.Bunchastu